Here are books we found helpful in our journey of understanding.

“To listen is to love. You can’t love without listening.”

Preston M. Sprinkle, Author of Embodied

Christian Perspectives

  • Embodied

    Why we appreciate this resource: As one of the leading voices in bringing faith into these important conversations, Preston’s tone is compassionate and Biblical. Additionally, his Center for Faith, Sexuality, and Gender is a wealth of resources and help for people

    From the Publisher: “Compassionate, Biblical, and thought-provoking, Embodied is an accessible guide for Christians who want help navigating issues related to the transgender conversation. Preston Sprinkle draws on Scripture as well as real-life stories of individuals struggling with gender dysphoria to help readers understand the complexities and emotions of this highly relevant topic.”

  • Emerging Gender Identities

    Why we appreciate this resource: A great resource especially for parents, this book offers a wealth of experience, practical wisdom, and a thoughtful, measured approach.

    From the Publisher: “This book offers a measured Christian response to the diverse gender identities that are being embraced by an increasing number of adolescents. Mark Yarhouse and Julia Sadusky offer an honest, scientifically informed, compassionate, and nuanced treatment for all readers who care about or work with gender-diverse youth: pastors, church leaders, parents, family members, youth workers, and counselors.

  • Is God Anti-Gay

    Why we appreciate this resource: Coming from a position of having same-sex attraction himself, Sam Allberry offers compassionate, clear, and concise answers to the question of whether the Bible really puts boundaries around same-sex relationships.

    From the Publisher: “Christians, the church, and the Bible seem to be out of step with modern attitudes towards homosexuality . . .What do we say, and how do we relate to both Christians and non-Christians who experience same-sex attraction? In this short, simple book, Sam Allberry wants to help confused Christians understand what God has said about these questions in the scriptures, and offers a positive and liberating way forward.”

  • Strange New World

    Why we appreciate this resource: Ever wonder how we got where we are? This book examines the historical, philosophical, and technological factors that have shaped our culture over centuries. Why is everything so political? How did the self become the center?

    From the Publisher: “How did the world arrive at its current, disorienting state of identity politics, and how should the church respond? Historian Carl R. Trueman shows how influences ranging from traditional institutions to technology and pornography moved modern culture toward an era of ‘expressive individualism.’”

Personal Experiences and Stories

  • Gay Girl, Good God

    From the Publisher: “Jackie Hill Perry shares her own story, offering practical tools that helped her in the process of finding wholeness. Jackie grew up fatherless and experienced gender confusion. She embraced masculinity and homosexuality with every fiber of her being . . . At age nineteen, Jackie came face-to-face with what it meant to be made new . . . God broke in and turned her heart toward Him right in her own bedroom in light of His gospel.”

  • Born Again This Way

    From the Publisher: “Rachel Gilson addresses many of the questions that Christians living with same-sex attraction are wrestling with: Am I consigned to a life of loneliness? How do I navigate my friendships? Will my desires ever change? Is there some greater purpose to all this? Drawing on insights from the Bible and the experiences of others, Gilson provides assurance and encouragement for Christians with same-sex attraction, and paints a compelling picture of discipleship for every believer.”

  • Washed and Waiting

    From the Publisher: “Hill offers wise counsel that is biblically faithful, theologically serious, and oriented to the life and practice of the church. As a celibate gay Christian, he gives us a glimpse of what it looks like to wrestle firsthand with God's ‘No’ to same-sex sexual intimacy and contemplate serious and difficult questions.”

Other Resources *

  • Difficult Conversations

    Why we appreciate this resource: One of our top go-to resources for equipping people to have difficult conversations about almost anything, this book offers essential principles and guidance for the divisive culture we live in.

    From the Publisher: “We attempt to avoid difficult conversations every day—whether dealing with an underperforming employee, disagreeing with a spouse, or negotiating with a client. From the Harvard Negotiation Project, the organization that brought you Getting to Yes, Difficult Conversations, provides a step-by-step approach to having those tough conversations with less stress and more success.”

  • Irreversible Damage

    Why we appreciate this resource: Shrier writes not from a Christian perspective but rather an investigative reporter’s perspective. Her research has revealed a lot of misleading information regarding gender transitioning and the permanent decisions being made based on that information.

    From the Publisher: “Until just a few years ago, gender dysphoria—severe discomfort in one’s biological sex—was vanishingly rare. It was typically found in less than .01 percent of the population, emerged in early childhood, and afflicted males almost exclusively. But today whole groups of female friends . . . are coming out as ‘transgender.’” A reporter for the Wall Street Journal, Abigail Shrier explores this phenomenon, the dangers of gender transition, and how parents can respond.

  • The Abolition of Sex

    Why we appreciate this resource: Writing from the perspective of a feminist lawyer on the political left, Dansky expresses frustration because of how she feels activists are destroying hard-won advances by feminists.

    From the Publisher: “Most Americans do not understand the real threat that the… movement poses to all of us—especially women and girls—nor do they understand the extent to which it is taking over U.S. law and civil society . . . This book shines a light on the very real threats that they pose to all of society—specifically to the rights, privacy, and safety of women and girls…”

  • Disclaimer: While we don’t endorse every sentence on every page or every word in every podcast or video, we hope that the following resources will provide another point of entry into this challenging topic. We also hope that as questions arise, people won't hesitate to reach out to us for further support. We want this to be a conversation that is helpful.